February 29, 2004
A library of intolerance?

In my nightly browsing, I came across this post, the contents of which I find quite disheartening:

"Ok, I hold a student position at the medical library and my boss is this super conservative republican lady. It was Friday afternoon and me and a coworker were just sitting around waiting for the clock to tick 6 P.M. so we could go home, then I get a phone call and after I got off the phone the conversation with the co-worker went something like this:

co-worker: Was that your special girl friend?
Jose: What do you mean my special girl friend?
co-worker: Yeah, was that your girlfriend?
Jose: No.
co-worker: or your boyfriend, if that's the way you go
Jose: No
co-worker: No what, not your Boyfriend or not the way you go?
Jose: Not the way I go (here I had to lie and the only reason was because my brother also works here and im not out to my family)
co-worker: Well, that's good because you know [the boss' name] is not too fond of the issue
Jose: Well, it's not like she has a say in the issue, now does she?
co-worker: Well, no you're right but you know how those republicans are.

Does that sound like harassment? The comments were all made in a non-threatening tone and just as a friendly chat between co-workers. Now I know that if I was to come out my boss would not be comfortable with me being gay and I do think she would either make it difficult for me to work here or would give me less hours for work next semester. Probably even at the time when she wasn't at the office."

It's sad that his concern is quite reasonable. And to see such an atmosphere of intolerance manifest itself in an environment that should be known for its respect, if not celebration, of diverse identities, backgrounds and viewpoints is tragic. Of course, the author and his co-worker could be off-base in their perception of the boss, but a workplace culture that even suggests intolerance, especially on the managerial level, makes me cringe.

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Posted by Greg at February 29, 2004 09:50 PM | | Trackback (0)
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